Self-Deception
Words are weird. They are random sounds that serve as symbols to represent…everything. In the essay, “Words Don’t Mean What They Mean,” Steven Pinker explained how we always manipulate words to show and hide certain messages while establishing relationships with whom the words are intended. This made me think about lies - when telling a lie, people not only manipulate words but convey an incorrect message. What if someone lied to themselves and made themselves believe that it is true? I’m not talking about if someone I trust lied to me and I believed them; I’m talking about if I lied to myself to avoid coming to terms with something but believed. For example, I order a larger plate of noodles for dinner and tell myself to save half of it for lunch tomorrow, whereas, at the moment, I will almost certainly eat all of the noodles. Another example is if many red flags are present in a relationship, but someone does not have enough strength to believe and admit i...